Duff here. I was going through My family Album and came across Uncle Egbert. He was Much older. And a real Character. (But then, He was part of My family so It goes without saying.) Eccentric. Creative. Bodacious. Aunt Petunia, his wife, couldn’t contain Him and usually gave up, blushing and laughing at His Antics. Living unstuck.
He had Command Presence. You know the Type? A Superb master of The Look. Have You ever been the recipient of that Glance? It doesn’t last long, but comes in at a Laser Frequency. If It comes Your Way, you are fully aware of being under Scrutiny. And not in a Good Way, mind you. Once I was acting Out, as puppies do, and He gave me The Look. Stopped me in My Tracks, it did. Believe Me, I straightened out and behaved. Living unstuck.
How about You? Have you been on the Receiving End of The Look? Or do You dole it out? I say: Be on the Sending End. Groom Your Command presence. And perfect The Look, but reserve It for those Particular occasions as needed. I assure You, it will put You in Charge. Living unstuck. #unstuck-living#command-presence
Once you figure out what respect tastes like, it tastes better than attention.